— the heart behind Fearlessly Aligned.
As a soldier, leader, and protector, my nervous system learned how to stay alert, push through, and perform under pressure. Stillness didn’t feel safe — it felt unfamiliar. Silence felt like something was wrong.
When I retired from the military, after 20 years of service, everything I had built my identity around disappeared overnight. The structure, the mission, the uniform — gone. I wasn’t just burned out; I was disconnected. I knew I no longer had to live in survival mode, but I didn’t know who I was without it.
That moment changed everything.
Hi, I am Courtnee
Sound healing entered my life not as a trend, but as a necessity. It was one of the first times my body learned, slowly and safely, that rest didn’t mean danger. That stillness didn’t mean failure. That peace was something I was allowed to experience, not something I had to earn.
Even before sound healing, I began doing deep identity work. I realized how many of us — especially women and veterans — spend years being who we need to be for everyone else, without ever asking who we actually are. Becoming an identity coach wasn’t a career pivot; it was a personal reckoning. I had to rediscover myself before I could help others do the same.
And then there was creativity.
For the first time in my adult life, I had real space to follow a creative pull that had been quiet for years. Creating journals, workbooks, and intentional products became a way to process, express, and rebuild. Teaching others how to turn ideas into something tangible became part of the healing too. Creativity wasn’t a hobby; it was integration.
Fearlessly Aligned was born from that intersection:
nervous system regulation through sound healing
identity coaching for those rebuilding who they are
creative guidance for turning ideas into meaningful reality
This work is for people who’ve lived in fight-or-flight for so long they forgot what alignment feels like. For those learning — sometimes for the first time — that rest can be safe, peace is possible, and healing doesn’t require hustling harder.
I’m also a certified coach, trainer, and speaker with the John Maxwell Leadership Team.
If you’re looking for a grounded guide, honest conversations, and a community that understands survival mode from the inside out — you’re in the right place.
This is your invitation to step out of autopilot and reconnect with who you are beneath it all.

